How do we know if we are going in the right direction?
In the previous article, I spoke about the
theme of growth - personal, creative, emotional - and the often subtle signs
that show we’re evolving. But one question keeps coming up: in the midst of so
much uncertainty, how can we truly know if we’re on the right path?
The truth is, growth doesn’t always
feel like growth. It often happens quietly. While we search for visible proof
that we’re making p
rogress, we forget that some of the biggest changes happen
behind the scenes. It’s like someone who trains every day and only notices
results when they look at an old photo. Sometimes, we confuse stagnation with
consolidation. And, as strange as it may sound, grounding ourselves is also a
form of growth.
Having doubts doesn’t mean we’re
failing. On the contrary, it might mean we’ve stopped living on autopilot. We
start questioning more, trying to understand better, and refusing to accept
just any answer. That is growth. And the very fact that we’re asking, “Does
this make sense?” already shows awareness. It shows that we care about the path
- not just the destination.
And what if the “right path” isn’t just
one path? So often, we wait for external validation - whether it’s praise, a
number, an opportunity - to tell us we’re headed the right way. But maybe the
real question is: “Does this make sense to me right now?” We won’t always feel
clarity or certainty. But if something within us finds peace or excitement in
that direction, maybe that’s enough.
There are signs, even small ones, that
we’re growing: when we no longer react the way we used to. When we realize
certain criticisms don’t hit as hard anymore. When we stop trying to please
everyone. When we gain more clarity about what actually feels good to us. Or
even when we look at our work with fresh eyes - more critical, yes, but also
more compassionate.
In creative projects, growth doesn’t
always mean something more complex or impressive. Sometimes, we write something
simpler, but more truthful. More present. More emotionally mature. It might
seem like a step back in style, but it’s actually a step forward in
authenticity.
So maybe the question shouldn’t be “How
do I know if I’m evolving?” but rather: “What’s changed in me since the last
time I asked myself this?” Growing doesn’t mean we stop having doubts. It means
learning to walk alongside them, without letting them stop us. And maybe, just
maybe, it means accepting that we are already evolving - even when we can’t yet
see it.



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